dem boyz

My friend circle is like my roommates and maybe three close girlfriends, then all my boys. Even though, I love to embrace my femininity, I am most certainly a guys girls. The majority of my friends are guys. They’re actually the ones I analyze situations with and talk relationships, and occasionally wrestle. I thought this was normal, but the other day a male friend of mine and I were talking and he told me that I have this rare ability to be friends with guys without trying to date them (not sure if thats really rare, cause i mean seriously how hard is it to be happy with friendships as they are?)  I don’t know why I’m telling you this, It’s kinda a pet peeve of mine when girls talk about how much they hate girls, or they never got along with them. Probably cause they’re usually telling me this in person and i’m a girl and i’m like ‘uhhhh okay i’m right here dude…’

I guess in my experience i find advice from my male counterparts brutally honest, and thats something I value so much.  So let it be known, i’m not a woman hater either, i just spend most my time with my guys  I don’t mind either way, I’m happy with it, I have a lot of fun. Maybe a little too much fun at times. for instance, this is me and my buddy tanner watching a movie.

and yes, he was using my purse as a chip holder. we keep things classy.
sorry this post was a little jarbled and ranty, but whutevz
Happy wednesday!

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  1. Yes. I really hate when girls say, "I love hanging out with guys because THERE'S NO DRAMA!!!!" That's a pet peeve of mine!! And also… it seems like most of those same girls just like hanging out with guys because they really like to flirt. haha! Just an observation.
    I love your honesty about your friendships with dudes. It's refreshing.

  2. Yes. I really hate when girls say, "I love hanging out with guys because THERE'S NO DRAMA!!!!" That's a pet peeve of mine!! And also… it seems like most of those same girls just like hanging out with guys because they really like to flirt. haha! Just an observation.
    I love your honesty about your friendships with dudes. It's refreshing.

  3. Yes. I really hate when girls say, "I love hanging out with guys because THERE'S NO DRAMA!!!!" That's a pet peeve of mine!! And also… it seems like most of those same girls just like hanging out with guys because they really like to flirt. haha! Just an observation.
    I love your honesty about your friendships with dudes. It's refreshing.

  4. Yes. I really hate when girls say, "I love hanging out with guys because THERE'S NO DRAMA!!!!" That's a pet peeve of mine!! And also… it seems like most of those same girls just like hanging out with guys because they really like to flirt. haha! Just an observation.
    I love your honesty about your friendships with dudes. It's refreshing.

  5. I was reading this post just trying to figure out all the positions you and your friend Tanner took in each frame of that gif. Also, you are so right, hanging out with guys is a lot of fun. To me, it doesn't matter what gender you have, if you are the kind of person I like to hang out with, then chances are we'll be friends. If it just so happens that most of you are guys, well, go figure.

  6. I was reading this post just trying to figure out all the positions you and your friend Tanner took in each frame of that gif. Also, you are so right, hanging out with guys is a lot of fun. To me, it doesn't matter what gender you have, if you are the kind of person I like to hang out with, then chances are we'll be friends. If it just so happens that most of you are guys, well, go figure.

  7. I was reading this post just trying to figure out all the positions you and your friend Tanner took in each frame of that gif. Also, you are so right, hanging out with guys is a lot of fun. To me, it doesn't matter what gender you have, if you are the kind of person I like to hang out with, then chances are we'll be friends. If it just so happens that most of you are guys, well, go figure.

  8. I was reading this post just trying to figure out all the positions you and your friend Tanner took in each frame of that gif. Also, you are so right, hanging out with guys is a lot of fun. To me, it doesn't matter what gender you have, if you are the kind of person I like to hang out with, then chances are we'll be friends. If it just so happens that most of you are guys, well, go figure.

  9. hahaha, i've always been the same way. but it was more that girls didn't want to hang out with me or that they would exclude me. so i just picked guy friends and i always got along better with guys. but now that i'm married none of my guy friends want to hang out with me, luckily i still have my few close girlfriends. right?

  10. hahaha, i've always been the same way. but it was more that girls didn't want to hang out with me or that they would exclude me. so i just picked guy friends and i always got along better with guys. but now that i'm married none of my guy friends want to hang out with me, luckily i still have my few close girlfriends. right?

  11. I am one of those girls who is all "I prefer hanging out with guys because they are so much more simple". I think its the truth. I just get along with guys so much better than I do with girls. I mean I get on with girls. I am one! haha. But if I had the choice I would hang out with my guy friends first.

  12. I am one of those girls who is all "I prefer hanging out with guys because they are so much more simple". I think its the truth. I just get along with guys so much better than I do with girls. I mean I get on with girls. I am one! haha. But if I had the choice I would hang out with my guy friends first.

  13. I was the same way! I seriously think girls just hated me in high school. People always thought I was dating someone, but no, I just always hung out with guys. And now that I'm married, i only hang out with one guy. haha! girls can be great, don't get me wrong (like natalie above, love her)! But guys are so chill and they eat food. Yuh.

  14. I was the same way! I seriously think girls just hated me in high school. People always thought I was dating someone, but no, I just always hung out with guys. And now that I'm married, i only hang out with one guy. haha! girls can be great, don't get me wrong (like natalie above, love her)! But guys are so chill and they eat food. Yuh.

  15. I was the same way! I seriously think girls just hated me in high school. People always thought I was dating someone, but no, I just always hung out with guys. And now that I'm married, i only hang out with one guy. haha! girls can be great, don't get me wrong (like natalie above, love her)! But guys are so chill and they eat food. Yuh.

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